Anonymous asked: I really hate strap ons and penetration and I feel wrong

lesbian-lizards:

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ungratefulbitchasiam:

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outlawfem:

kitchenalia:

you’re not wrong at all!! i hate penetration too, and so do tons of other women out there in the world. penetrative sex isn’t our destiny or whatever, it’s one way of having sex that only some women enjoy. please feel free to have sex whatever way you want, not the way that other people expect you to have it

back in my day, it was pretty universally understood amongst the LGBT community that most lesbians weren’t having sex with strap ons every single time we had sex, and that was like a thing some women were into sometimes, not the normal way to have lesbian sex. I really have no idea where this “lesbians love strap ons” shit came from. I’m gonna assume this is some newfangled queer thing.

if you’re a lesbian who doesn’t like penetration that’s like the most normal thing in the world. if you’re a lesbian who does, that’s fine too. but it’s just baffling to me how ten years ago “the only way for women to have real sex with each other is with a strap on” was a deeply ignorant and homophobic thing to say, but now we got lesbians feeling like they’re wrong because they don’t like straps? that ain’t right, man. ain’t right at all.

it came from porn i think

It 100% came from porn

i reblog stuff like this every time i see it. i love clitoral stimulation! i have clitoral orgasms! i do not ever want to be penetrated by anything! stop assuming all women enjoy being penetrated, SO many of us don’t. really disgusting how non-lesbians who call themselves lesbians CONSTANTLY make weird/gross “jokes” about a supposed lesbian “obsession” with dildos. sure, some lesbians do like them. but a LOT of lesbians don’t. and i guarantee you lesbians aren’t even using dildos the majority of the time. it’s like the whole world forgot about eating pussy/using fingers to stroke clits

I don’t mean any disrespect towards women who enjoy penetration/toys etc., but yeah. The ‘tone’ has definitely changed. I am having a hard time avoiding graphic descriptions of penetration in lesbian spaces, and that sucks.

Because lesbian spaces are being taken over by bi women and straight men in skirts who think calling themselves a lesbian is sexy and exotic while loathing actually homosexual women. 

Not to mention the fact that I’ve seen way too many people refer to penis as a “built in strap on” like come on.. it’s just a way to try to manipulate lesbians into believing this is normal despite how they feel

Even a lot of straight women prefer clitoral stimulation

It’s porn babe

Who wouldn’t? Most women, regardless of sexuality, can’t come without clitoral stimulation. And even outside of sex, do women even commonly penetrate themselves while masturbating? I just rub down there till I get off, it’s way easier and ‘cleaner’.